How do you greet a nervous dog? (2023)

How do you greet a nervous dog?

If you know the dog is shy or fearful, change your body language. Approach toward the side of the dog, not toward his head, and avoid direct eye contact.

It's okay to comfort your dog

It's okay to comfort a fearful dog if you think the dog would like it. Not all dogs do; some dogs prefer to run and hide in some circumstances, and that's okay too. But some dogs will approach their person and seem to be seeking comfort.

Whether you rescue an older dog or a puppy, a lot of dogs tend to follow the 3-3-3 rule when getting acclimated: 3 days of feeling overwhelmed and nervous. 3 weeks of settling in. 3 months of building trust and bonding with you.

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It may seem obvious, but it must be said: never scold or punish a fearful dog. You will only succeed in making it more fearful. You may also put yourself in danger because, as a dog's anxiety level rises, it becomes more likely to bite. Also, it's best to avoid using aversives when training a fearful dog.

Restrict your pats to the dog's side, neck, back, or chest. Even better, ask the owner if their dog has a favorite spot for petting. Avoid reaching over the dog's head as that is frightening. And don't hug or restrain the dog in any way.

The best way to help a shy or fearful dog gain confidence is to expose them to what frightens them at a low intensity. Pair this exposure with something positive, like a tasty treat.

Stand up straight or squat

A dog has its own way of interpreting your posture when you meet. Standing straight or squatting is fine, but whatever you do, don't crouch over the dog, recommends Trumps. That posture can be interpreted as threatening.